Pay Attention
Thursday, January 22nd, 2009Ollie the year-old Cockapoo could be the busiest dog I’ve ever met.
He kept himself occupied with a bone during the Q&A segment of our first lesson, but when we got to work, young Ollie was rarin’ to go. And that meant leaping wildly on me, tables, his person … he was all, “I’m ready to do something! Anything! Let’s do stuff! I’m jumping on you because you’re not paying attention to me at this very second! Jump, jump, jump! Look at me!”
Within a few seconds Ollie figured out that sitting worked better than jumping (clever boy!), and was textbook perfect until the end of the session, when it came time to sit down and talk about homework. Ollie no longer wanted the bone or the toys I’d brought … he wanted our attention. And I was blown away by his technique for getting it.
He scratched at his person’s beautiful new couch like a cat.
Now, he was used to his person telling him “no, stop” when he scratched, but that was actually backfiring because it taught Ollie that when he wanted someone to acknowledge him, all he had to do was rake his paw on the bottom of the (beautiful, delicate, suede-like) couch. We switched things up while I was there: each time he scratched, his person and I got up and left the room. Did the scratching continue after we disappeared? No way – the second we moved, he moved with us.
Ollie has honed his attention seeking skills (the scratching, jumping and counter surfing) over the past 6 months, so it’s going to take dedication to extinguish those behaviors. It feels counterintuitive to ignore “naughty” behaviors, but if the driving force behind those behaviors is the dog’s attempt to get attention, consistently withholding attention should make the dog realize that his normal strategies no longer work. (Now, if a dog is counter surfing to nab goodies, you have a different issue on your hands.)
Right now, Ollie’s used to demanding attention by any means necessary. Soon, he’ll discover that if he asks politely, he’ll get everything he’s ever wanted.

















